So… What Is ADHD? A Closer Look Beyond the Basics.
- Emma Stokes
- Aug 14, 2025
- 3 min read

You’ve probably heard the term ADHD — often linked with hyperactivity or an inability to focus. But there's far more to it than that. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental difference that affects how someone pays attention, regulates impulses, and manages time, tasks, and emotions.
It’s not just “naughtiness,” “laziness,” or “poor concentration” — and it doesn’t only affect children. Let’s explore what ADHD really is, how it presents across ages and stages, and how to support those who live with it.
🧠 What Is ADHD?
According to diagnostic frameworks like the DSM-5 and ICD-11, ADHD is characterised by a pattern of:
Inattention (difficulty sustaining focus, being easily distracted, forgetful)
Hyperactivity (restlessness, fidgeting, difficulty staying still)
Impulsivity (acting without thinking, interrupting, emotional outbursts)
There are three recognised presentations:
Predominantly Inattentive
Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive
Combined Presentation
ADHD is neurobiological in origin — it involves differences in how the brain regulates attention, motivation, and executive function (planning, memory, task switching).
🧒👩🎓🧑💼 How ADHD Shows Up at Different Ages
In Children:
Difficulty following multi-step instructions
Daydreaming or zoning out in class
Interrupting or talking excessively
Struggles with routines and organisation
Emotional “explosions” over small frustrations
In Teenagers:
Avoids or delays tasks that require sustained focus
Disorganised study habits and poor time management
Risk-taking behaviour or impulsivity in social settings
Sensitivity to rejection or criticism
Increased academic pressure may highlight difficulties
In Adults:
Difficulty completing tasks, especially under time pressure ⏰
Trouble managing work deadlines or personal admin 📋
Frequent lateness or forgetfulness
Mental fatigue and “task paralysis”
Emotional dysregulation, e.g., irritability or overwhelm
Difficulty switching off — even when exhausted
👉 Many adults with ADHD weren’t diagnosed in childhood, and may have masked or compensated for their symptoms for years.
🔄 Common Misconceptions
“ADHD is just a childhood disorder.” ➤ False. It often persists into adulthood and may become more apparent over time.
“Everyone gets distracted sometimes — it’s not ADHD.” ➤ Occasional distraction is normal. ADHD is persistent, impairing, and present in multiple settings.
“People with ADHD just need to try harder.” ➤ ADHD is not a matter of willpower. It affects self-regulation — how you do things, not whether you want to.
🌟 Strengths That Often Come With ADHD
While ADHD can present challenges, it often comes with real strengths:
Creativity and idea generation 🎨
High energy and enthusiasm ⚡
Hyperfocus on tasks of interest 🎯
Strong verbal communication 💬
Problem-solving under pressure 🔧
Empathy and emotional intuition 💛
These qualities are valuable — in the classroom, the workplace, and beyond.
🛠️ Support Strategies That Work
For children and young people:
Clear routines and visual schedules 📅
Breaking tasks into small, manageable steps 🧩
Movement breaks and fidget tools 🪀
Positive reinforcement and strengths-based feedback 🌈
Extra time for processing or transitioning ⏳
For teenagers and adults:
Time management aids (planners, alarms, apps) ⏰📱
Task prioritisation tools (e.g. “must, should, could” lists)
Environmental adjustments (quiet spaces, noise-cancelling headphones) 🎧
Coaching or mentoring to build executive functioning skills
Medication and/or therapy, where appropriate (NHS or private routes) 💊🧠
🧭 Understanding Leads to Empowerment
Whether you're a parent, educator, employer, or someone exploring their own experiences — understanding ADHD is the first step to effective support. With the right strategies, self-awareness, and adjustments, people with ADHD can not only cope — they can thrive.
ADHD isn’t about being broken. It’s a different operating system. Let’s support those who use it.
🧾 Curious About ADHD? Start with a Screening
If you’re wondering whether ADHD might be part of your or your child’s profile, a screening appointment can be a helpful first step.
🔎 My screening appointments offer:
Exploration of presenting concerns
Identification of signs that may indicate ADHD
Discussion of next steps and support options
Guidance on whether a full diagnostic assessment may be beneficial
🧠 A full diagnostic assessment for ADHD, which may lead to prescribed medication if appropriate, must be carried out by:
A psychiatrist,
A paediatrician, or
A clinical psychologist with expertise in ADHD.
If needed, I can signpost you to appropriate pathways for medical diagnosis and ongoing support.



